Life has been miserable with several ups and down. I told my parents about this and they are supporting me and saying to file a case of domestic violence and divorce as well. Somehow, I could not achieve my dream of having a happy family. Neighbors actually come to me and say mean things about my marriage …My parents r there for me. I was in a awful state and felt that I was not able to cope with life any longer.
He loved and married me …. I did, but in the end ran into same situation again. And you get the left-overs packed to take home. Use this experience to become stronger, more resilient, and to learn first-hand, the infinite hyprocrisy of Indian society. I belong to Upper Caste, namely Arya Vysya caste comes under open or general category which is a respected business caste like Gujrathi, Marwari, Agarwal, Khandelwal. I am currently going thorough a separation phase after 10 years of marriage. About people opinion or society dear friends we should never worry if we are on the righteous path,ur righteous atitude one day make them for a change in their mindset but for that u have to believe in urself only u can change ur destiny.
There are others whose lives change completely in terms of the kind of homes they live in or the amount of housework they suddenly have to do. I am just tired of fighting with life from so many years with lots of struggle twist and turns where always I end up with suffering. Be honest with them about what is going on and encourage them to express their feelings. I am not a drug addict. I regularly talked to her and send money to maintain the lifestyle of my wife and my daughter but thing got changed when i came back to India and i found my wife was chatting and talking with some guys regularly, since i pay her bill so i always get the bill on my email but i never checked it because of trust but when i started checking call details, I was shocked. I feel lonely from so long.
No no this is not for all. They go and meet new people and see if someone else could become their long term friend. Sahana, I truly feel for you. My in-laws also supported him and said that boys can do affairs nothing wrong in it. I am very shock coz my husband decided all. But will never give up.
My mother in law has problem with me since i have been visting my parents. Well, he did return and now we are doing well again, more than ever before. May be i was very ambitious or confident or arrogant that i can achieve anything in life. After the marriage, the woman came to know that the man had transferred his property in the name of children born out of an earlier marriage. All you need to do is open an account today. He pressurize me for everything.
N I still do… Hi I am 32 working independent women …I am also going through with same situation. It was a mutual divorce and the process was completed in Jan'15. For 5 years I lived in denial that my partner was cheating on me for the fear that my child would loose her father. In the entire trip, she was cursing me and was saying, I am missing Mumbai and my friends. But after going through everything in my life — i feel i should not blame him. My inlaws have cheated on me … my husband was in my college and liked me and he asked for my hand directly to my parents and hence, everyone considered it to be love marriag.
It is also equally well-settled, since the decisions of the Supreme Court in Maneka Gandhi and in Olga Tellis, that no one, obviously including a Muslim divorced woman, can be deprived of the right to life or livelihood except by the procedure established by law, which must be reasonable, right, just and fair. I was domestic violence victim coz of violence I got my gallbladder surgery ,they sent me to mental hospital when ever they wish they throw me out I use to sit in parks bus stop my life is so terrible and my own family is not happy to take me. I find myself being atttacted to other males. E divorce but other cab over come this divorce. So, Finally she left me. So us divorced folks can offer each other support and succour.
Rather it would be great if i keep my mouth shut. Let us all together put our 1st step towards a beautiful reason that god has meant for all of us. For women, it is more difficult because of the social stigma attached. If divorce is the solution you might be thinking then never get married again in your life. She said that when she asked her in-laws for a laptop at home, they suspiciously deleted folders from it before handing it over. Instead of dressing down to avoid being noticed, she dressed exactly as she wanted to and bloomed in the extra sunshine, taking it as the ultimate compliment.