The I love you's and you look great should be apart of every day as do the flowers and date nights and everything else. I won't push the issue until after the baby is born. I want to help her but I also don't need her to be more stressed out. I am afraid by time the baby is born, my wife and I will hate each other. All I can say is I'm with you guys and I hope someone can give me some advice too. This last fight I had enough. I enjoyed reading everyones post it made me feel better that i wasnt the only one going through the hard parts of pregnancy! She hardly shows any love or affection in any way.
The last few months were the hardest because she was tired and really uncomfortable. It is making me look like a house and doesn't let me sleep, walk and sometimes even breath. I am so miserable I feel like such a punk taking her crap everyday but I will swallow my pride for the babies sake. Grossly, he won't even house train her properly so there is constantly dog poo everywhere that he will leave sitting for days. However in week 7 out of no where while we were carving pumpkins she started to cry, now she had been very emotional the weeks before so I figured it was nothing.
Not just for me, but for all of you. I never want to have another child again said. Well, I was that short of scratching his eyes out and screaming obscenities and all sorts of colourful names, so once again I went to my room to calm down. My girlfriend and I are about nine weeks along and while we're excited and enthused, things are not the way I thought they would be. I think it needs to be her decision because she'll end up hating me for good if I encourage her one way or the other and then she thinks it was the wrong decision. Agen I try and make sence on the whole situation but all I get is I hate you I don't want to be with you I hate your past and you.
It's true that there is nothing we can do about it but we can try to not burden our entourage with it. I am going through the exact same thing. I feel like a friend and not a bf anymore. I'm glad to hear you're working on your relationship and wish you and your son years of happiness. We found out she was pregnat and everything was bliss both of us were so happy, she wanted to go tell my mom right away.
The past week of not eating, vomiting and continous sleeping has left me somewhat worried, but people. Well, other guy is here visiting from Europe for 2 weeks. I thought the anger was obvious. My wife asked me to buy her a new house 6 months after we just bought a house. It takes all of my strength to not take the low road out. My husband will then tell me that it is all in the mind and that I am full of nonsense. When your partner wants to stay, it's not for lack of caring about you.
Chances are, your wife will be relieved to talk to someone other than you who she might perceive as actually listening to her. My situation is my girlfriend who lives interstate used to practically brag about how much she loved me and about all the plans we had, then suddenly she broke it off. She wants to feel the same about her life. I recenlty discovered that i am bipolar which would explain why sometimes i would act the way i would in instances and have episodes of irritability , paranoia , and deperesion and she unfortunately was the one taking this. I hope this is temporary, because I don't want to be a part-time dad, but I can't live a full-time marriage like this.
Actually she was a pass the due date and we were trying to kick the baby out. I feel that this should be a time for us to bond and prepare ourselves for parenthood, but it seems like the pregnancy is pulling us apart. This site is a definite godsend!!! Men up, men, and marry your pregnant women! Or could it be more than just the pregnancy? It's not who she is, it's the hormones. Usually this wouldnt bother me, but right there and then I just wanted to grab a knife and throw it at him. It's so unfair, and you feel like everything is your responsibility, but you can't control your actions or your body like before you were pregnant. It gets to the point that it isn't even worth staying.
Life is what you make it. A partner who doesn't want you to go out with your may be scared of being abandoned. Last week she flipped out on me. She may forget about what she did later on and only remember your reaction. The swings are amazingly hurtful. During our first pregnancy, my wife asked me to vacuum the carpet on a Friday night.